Phone Sex

‘I’m too shy to express my sexual needs except over the phone to people I don't know.’
- Garry Shandling, US talk show host

You obviously have an interest in phone sex, else you wouldn’t be reading this. Here we uncover what it is, who uses it, how much it costs and more.

What is phone sex?
Phone sex is use the telephone for sexual enjoyment by one or more people. The object of the call can be to arouse and stimulate the caller, probably to reach orgasm. The call is usually an aid to masturbation, through the use of fantasy, hardcore language and erotic sounds. The call will probably begin in a normal manner, but should both parties be consenting, the call would become erotic – and phone sex take place.
Phone sex is not normally used to arrange a real life meeting, for sex or otherwise.
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Who uses phone sex services?
People from all walks of life use phone sex lines. Some are occasional callers, some are one-off callers, but many are frequent callers. Phone sex provides a safe, healthy channel for working off sexual tensions for many people. People who do not have regular in-person sex may find that sexual interaction with another person through phone sex a very useful way of introducing variety and excitement into solitary masturbation. On the other hand, people in relationships may find phone sex useful for a variety of reasons, including playing out fantasies their partner isn’t interested in, and also for generating ideas to take back to the bedroom.
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Can anyone find out if I call one?
Possibly, if they look at your itemised phone bill, and see 0909 numbers listed, then they will be able to tell! If you pay by credit card they are usually billed anonymously. Otherwise, phone sex is pretty anonymous, you don’t have to use your real name on the call, you don’t have to use your real voice, you don’t have to use your real age (though, you MUST be 18 or over), or the real place where you are from. The girl on the other end of the line won’t know your phone number, though if you are paranoid that phone numbers may be logged, dial ‘141’ before you dial any number to withhold your called-id (BT customers at the very least can call 141, probably works with other providers too).
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How can I get it for cheap, or for free?
This is like asking how can I get real sex for cheap or for free! Of course you can go and find a willing female to have dirty phone sex with you, a girlfriend, a wife, a friend. But that will probably cost you more in the long run with drinks, dinner, gifts etc!
So, just like you can pay for real life sex, you can pay for sex on the phone.

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Are the girls acting, or are they really turned on?
That hugely depends on you, on how much you turn them on. If they are talking to a really sweet guy who’s fantasy is to lick every inch of their body for hours on end, the girl may very well find that sexy and erotic if she’s in the mood for that. Some of the girls are very highly sexed, nymphomaniacs if you like, and they not only do it for the money, but also for sexual pleasure – because they love talking dirty to guys! Some girls are bound to be acting, like any other job; they may just be going through the motions. But, if they are not doing a good job, the men will be hanging up, so their employees will spot it. On the whole the girls are good at what they do.
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What do the girls think of the callers?
The callers are their customers, so they are going to want to like them; they are going to want to build up a relationship to get the guys calling back time and time again. They don’t think bad of the callers, think they are sad losers, they understand that there are times where men just need some company, and some no-strings erotic fun!
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